DH and I hve been married for 7 years with wo DDs. He is so unreasonable and moody that I can barely stand it. I honestly feel like a second class person in the marriage. In a good mood, he is lovely and we have a laugh, but I walk on egg shells to avoid him being in a mood. He dislikes all of my friends, I never socialise anymore, he particularly hates a close male friend who I barely see now. He's convinced that the friend is after me, which he isn't. He socialises most evenings when he's working away and is a very heavy drinker on nights out. We don't have a joint bank account, and although he works away every week, he gives me limited cash. He does virtually nothing to help me. My car has a puncture which he won't fix and he hates my driving his car, so I feel stranded. He hates all the teachers and Mums at the DDs' school. But he does like my family. My Mum thinks I should leave him. But I know he'd give me no money and I'd hve to fight for every penny. I am so miserable since he's in a mood about something tonight. Luckily, he's heading off tomorrow morning and won't be Back until Friday.
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He is financially abusive, isolates you, controlling, doesn't let you socialise or go out but is always out himself and drinking, moody, you walk on egg shells => emotionally abusive. And you say you are so miserable 
. If you were watching your daughter or friend in a relationship like this, what would you want to say to them? No one should feel like a second class citizen in a relationship, that is not normal. You deserve better. A lot better.
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