Is what DH said to me earlier today. He is very moody and frequently gets in bad moods. We were out for the day Saturday and he suddenly got in one of these moods. I told him this morning to snap out of it and he went mad at me, shouting at me and saying that he might leave me and he wants nothing more to do with me, then said I've ruined today and everything is my fault. Then as per usual he comes out with all these things he apparently hates about me.
Today it's that I don't do enough housework. I do loads. We have 3 DCs. I haven't done much for two days though as we've had 2 days out. I did a massive spring clean last week. I do everything. Also my parents abused me as a child and he more or less said he can see why they did.
I've tried to talk today but he just reminds me that it's all my fault and I need to change. He's going to sulk for several days now. He also said I'm not to cry today as he will be very pissed off if I do, but of course I've spent all day crying on and off. He didn't comfort me. He never does.
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'Its all your fault and now you've ruined today'
MiniEggsJumpedInMyBasket · 01/04/2013 19:30
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