I'm not sure what to do so I'd appreciate any advice.
My relationship with my mum is all one sided and strained. She doesn't call round and on the DC's birthday, she didn't even pick up the phone to wish them a happy birthday. That hurt big time and made me angry as it said to me that she didn't care enough to speak to the DC.
Recently my mum was told that she had raised Ca125 levels. A bit of research told me that some other conditions can raise tose levels, such as cirrhosis, ovarian cysts and a few other things. My younger brother rang me to tell me this (that the CA125 levels were raised) and then went on about how mum went without to make sure we were fed and generally trying to pile on the emotional blackmail. After I got off the phone, I thought that it was fundamental that any parent would be expected to go without to make sure their kids were fed. When I say fundamental, I mean on the same parenting level as changing nappies or keeping your DC clean, adequately fed and watered. It's just something that any half-decent parent wouldn't think twice about if they had that choice to make.
I'm wondering if IABU, but I don't see why my DC's relationship with their gran should be based on them having to do all the running.
Again, any advice is appreciated.
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Chiggers · 31/03/2013 14:04
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