I wonder if anyone can help me with a mum I'm struggling with. There is friction between our DD's who are in reception. Basically she has contacted me twice out of school time regarding behaviour of my child hurting hers. This was obviously very upsetting and I basically believed the incident had happened and came down very heavy on my DD. I'm told very little about what goes on at school so feel I'm working blind my end and this isn't helping communication between my DD and myself.
I have been reassured by the school that her behaviour is as expected at this age and no better or worse than any other child in the class and been advised to tell this mum to approach the school should there be any further problems which I did. I was assured they would let me know if there was any behaviour issues they felt I needed to know about and have heard nothing via the school so assume they are not concerned about anything.
However she approached me again about something else and I have since witnessed some nasty things her daughter has said to mine and understand why she has been reacting in such an out of character way to her. This I shared calmly with her stating I believe it is half of one and half of the other and we have to trust the teachers in school to deal with what happens in school time and work together as adults to support our kids.
I've since been aware of other mums withdrawing from me and am aware she is spewing this all over facebook without names, but this is a small village school...
I'm doing my best to be dignified and grown up about this and trusting they will all learn in time that she is being unreasonable, but I'm finding it harder to keep control and she is filling my headspace too much!
Sorry to go on, this has been going on for some time now. Any one else had this?
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Toxic school mum-any advice please
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niddy · 27/03/2013 20:03
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