My H had an affair and I ejected him at the end of last year.
Since then my 2 DDs (15, 13) have spent very little time with him. Both are still angry with him for trashing their family life and object to the fact that he's living unnecessarily far away.
They are perfectly civil to him, but they communicate important stuff through me mostly. He complains that he barely sees them.
I think that even if they ignored him or told him to f*ck off every day for the next 5 years, he should still be making a superhuman effort to maintain contact, until they are ready to let him back in.
But should I have to tell him that? I don't want to, he's being all poor-me and passive now anyway and I'm fed up with it, but I don't want him to fade away from their lives because his ego can't take rejection.
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teenagers and divorce
optionalExtras · 20/03/2013 21:00
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