I'm in a fairly new relationship (autumn 2012) and for the most part, it has been fantastic. OH is lovely, affectionate and we have a great time together.
He has talked of wanting to marry me and to have children with me. This is definitely what I want in the future, ideally with him, as I've never before felt so good in a relationship.
However, his future plans do not include me, or any plans to get married and have children. He currently lives with his unwell mother, who is likely to inherit some money in the next year or so. He then hopes to take over her council tenancy, as she will seek private medical treatment and leave the country. He said that 'it would be a shame to miss out on this opportunity'.
I would have liked him to move in here in the next year or so.
Am I hurtling too far into the what-ifs of the future?
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IDunnoAboutThis · 06/03/2013 17:46
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