I'm in pieces as I write this so I'll try to make it as clear as I can:
I live in Italy with my husband and 3 year old son.
Our relationship has been all but over for a very long time.
Following on from some particular nastiness today, husband said he was only with me for DS.
I've told him that if it's true, he should leave FOR THE SAKE OF DS, as well as for our sakes.
He's told me there's no way he's leaving.
I told him I was willing to stay living here, away from my family, and wouldn't deny him access to DS, but asked to find somewhere small and close-by for himself.
He said he wasn't going, that we could still live together, but he's not going to discuss our relationship, as our marriage is over.
He said I can't make him leave.
I know this is very 'he said' 'I said', but I can only really manage to set out the bare bones.
The question I'm asking is he can't just stay here, can he? What can I do to get through to him he has to leave, especially considering he won't talk about our relationship?
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WhatALark · 09/02/2013 13:53
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