Sorry for going anon on this one but I just want some impartial opinions.
Basically I've been with someone about 7 months, up until now I've been besotted with him and would have done anything to keep him but now I'm starting to wonder what on earth I'm holding on to. He's always in a mood, says he isn't but he is, always grumpy and always moaning. He never seems to want to do anything other than sit in front of the TV night after night.
Last night, for the first time in our relationship he got in bed, faced away from me and went to sleep without so much as a kiss or even a hug. After 7 months??? I remember thinking I may as well be single at this rate. He said he was tired and had no energy - how much energy does it take to kiss someone??
Sex has diminished to around once a week (and even that seems forced) and affection at other times in the day is now completely non-existent.
We're supposed to be going out for valentines day (his suggestion to go for a meal) yet he still hasn't booked anything and really seems like he doesn't want to go anywhere. I was joking with him about him making me a valentines day card from scratch and he changed the subject and more or less started moaning about the "many" nights out we have planned in the next few weeks (2 - which we probably won't end up doing anyway!) so I'm starting to think he isn't even intending to get me a card.
It shouldn't be this dull and depressing after just 7 months should it!? It's doing my head in. I used to think I'd miss him terribly if we split up and in some respects I would because I spend so much time with him but in other respects - what's to miss?? endless nights in front of the TV? I don't even watch TV - I sit there in front of it for his benefit!
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Wondering if I should just give up on this relationship
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ColdCoffeeSundays · 08/02/2013 08:05
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