As I am getting older and my children are at school and pre-school, my social life has improved. I go out a couple of times a month sometimes more. Have kept in touch with some old friends in the big smoke, go to the odd gig and have a few good mum friends locally.
However i always socialise 'alone' and mostly prefer it that way, though i occasionally wonder what it would be like to have 'couple' friends. I do wonder if i am considered a bit strange or pitiable though, it never occurs to me to make social arrangements as a couple, dh is not interested, is happy looking after the kids. Any invite that is extended to dh I rarely bother passing on as I know he won't want to go. I have felt weird at a couple of parties where i have been surrounded by couples, but that is partly to do with not knowing enough people well so mingling is awkward.
I went to the school xmas ball stag, which was great as most of my friends partners got rat-arsed and made dicks of themselves
Anyway should I be strong arming my grumpy dh into socialising once a year so i can feel 'normal' or is it only a problem if it is a problem Iyswim I would like to go out with dh only, more as we currently average twice a year which is not enough imo.
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is it wierd that Dh andI don't socialise as a couple or have couple friends?
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bigmouthstrikesagain · 17/01/2013 20:26
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