Posted on here a month ago after H announced he had been having an affair. Advise on here really helped me through the first few days of the shock, hurt & pain.
Been a tough month but have tried to be strong for DS. Have surprised myself on how well I have coped, been awful days when I have not wanted to get out of bed and face the world then days when I think I can do this.
Been to solicitors and got some great advice and RL friends been amazing.
But today I have finally found out who OW is, my own fault been desperate to find out thinking it would make me feel better BUT now I have just feel like I did that night he told me.
Drunk a bottle of wine and keep typing texts to him then deleting them about it, know this sounds awful but she is minging twice the size of me and in my opinion ugly - don't know whether to feel smug or offended!
Want to confront her but don't want to give them the satisfaction
What do I do?
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Just found out who OW is
Tearsforfears · 16/01/2013 21:49
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