I am a name change for this and I feel sick as I am writing it.
When I was younger and it was /save all your kisses for me/ on top of the pops, I think it was number one for ages, my dad used to always look over at me and wink. It used to make me feel sick and I was about 6 at the time.
I used to have to sit next to my mother (whom I disliked) and I even sat on a pair of sewing scissors once, just to sit next to her as I felt so petrified of being near my dad.
When we were on holiday once I went on and on about a Hello kitty purse I wanted. I was 14 ish at the time. I said in a stupid voice "I want a pursey". Which I suppose sounded like "I want a pussy". My dad looked at me and laughed at said "you've already got one". I feel so sick at these thoughts. This was over 20 years ago but when I see my dad I always wear polo necks and keep my coat on. I don't know if anything more than this happened but he always makes me feel uneasy.
Is it nothing? Am I over reacting? My mother seemed to be totally unaware of any of my feelings and I couldn't say anything to her now, nor to my father (they divorced a few years ago).
It is really preying on my mind, the things he did, silly though they may sound I felt sick and frightened of what he could do. (A friend of his was a paedophile and he used to visit this man in prison.) I really can't think straight even though it was so long ago. It is the first time I have ever said about it ever.
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newnameolduser · 25/11/2012 22:22
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