I'll try not to make this too long as don't want to bore any potential help! We're in our late 30's, been together for 18 years and married for 11. So far, so good- well great actually. Hummed and hahed about kids then finally got round to it. On reflection, I was probably more up for it than him at the time but it hadn't always been that way. Our DD is now nearly 2 and I'm not just saying this to brag, but she is sooooo easy. Fab sleeper, no tantrums, great little eater, chatty and kind, loves nursery.... but he admitted today that he still harbours resentment towards me for 'making' him have a child. We did have a bumpy start- convinced he was depressed but now I wonder if he is just genuinely unhappy. I feel so hurt and confused as he really is great with DD - a brilliant dad. I love him but am so tired of trying to make him happy. I think I might be starting to feel a bit cross too. I just want a happy family. Will he ever be happy? Does anyone have any similar experiences they can share with me? Any ideas about what to do next? Thanks so much.
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