Ealier today my DDs were listening to music on DH's phone. I was helping them with it. When he realised I was helping he came and took the phone and said it needed charging. I saw that he'd received a facebook message from a male friend.
I went on the laptop later (DH is out now) having forgotten about him taking the phone off me. I opened facebook and his account was open so I was reminded about his earlier behaviour, I couldn't help but look at the message thread. The male friend had just announced that a weekend away (exercise related) was no longer happening and he'd try to rearrange it, My DH had sent a private message to his male friend saying "You've messed up my chances of a shag!!!!!!" I take this as DH was planning on shagging someone that weekend.
I don't know what to do. He may have cheated already. It may be an intention. It may have been bloke banter.
He's due back home about 10pm. I can't not say anything, I wear my heart on my sleeve and as I'm shaking and have cried it'll be obvious something is up.
He has previous of sending inappropriate texts to a woman and then lying about who she was.
We have two young DDs. We've been together 11 years and married 6.
Please help me get my thoughts straight.
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Big trust issues, please come and give me some wise words.
Carmenthebarman · 30/10/2012 20:33
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