Now we are nearly in November, and DD has started Xmas carols at school, I can't help thinking I don't want her to associate Xmas with us breaking up. I've found out yet more stuff - says keeps trying to hide things because he doesn't want to lose us ..... Anyway I can't see how I can stay. But we have loads of stuff to untangle (work together) to be able to go our separate ways - and have nowhere (nor finances) for him to move out and rent somewhere.
I just feel sorry for him for being such a pathetic excuse of a man - and my main priority is DD, and making sure he gets help to be a decent father to her even if he's been a shit of a husband
She is aware - and when it first came out blamed me - so really really can't bear the thought of having Xmas with her telling me that I drove him away and ruined her Xmas. :-(
Maybe I'm procrastinating in the hope he will finally shape up and deal with his problems, but is looking increasingly unlikely ....
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Making divorce easier on kids in lead up to Xmas - dont know what to do.
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ickywickyyicky · 23/10/2012 20:46
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