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Suspect behaviour in an aquaintance's husband

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ponybaloney Mon 22-Oct-12 22:17:34

Hi. Some advice please as this has been playing on my mind. I know a woman who is married with 2 children through school. I know that her husband works away quite a lot and is often busy at work. I saw him one morning about a year ago with a woman at the airport, and they were travelling together. It could have been for work but something registered that they seemed a bit too intimate. I didn't think anything more of it.

Anyway. Last week I was at a function and he was there, and so was she. I saw him kiss her, and then I am pretty sure that they left together later.

I have been on the reciving end of deception and feel very upset by the idea that there appears to be something that is going on and the wife doesn't know.


RobynRidingHood Mon 22-Oct-12 22:22:46

None of your business.

You said "acquaintance" - that term alone implies you dont know him, or her other than on an extremely casual basis.

ponybaloney Mon 22-Oct-12 22:49:48

Oh, OK. You don't think I should say anything to her then? Our kids are at school together - that's how I know her.

MushroomSoup Mon 22-Oct-12 22:51:36

No! Nothing to do with you.

aimingtobeaperfectionist Mon 22-Oct-12 22:52:15

Unless she is a very good friend, don't get involved.

ponybaloney Mon 22-Oct-12 23:04:38

OK, thanks. Pretty unanimous there!

ChristmasKate Mon 22-Oct-12 23:06:33

Bitter experience tells me to say not to get involved.

Unless you have photographic evidence wink

bringbacksideburns Mon 22-Oct-12 23:16:25

No say nothing.

But next time you see him make damn sure he sees you.

ponybaloney Mon 22-Oct-12 23:26:11

Ha Christmas Kate, funny you should say that but there were professional photos taken on arrival at the function, and lo and behold, when I got sent the link to view the arrival photos, the photo of him arriving was with her, looking like a couple - or maybe he was just accompanying her to the event if she is single or whatver confused

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