I am so so angry I've been crying for about 20 minutes through pure anger
I live at home with my mum and dad and my 6 month old daughter, my ex lived here till 3 months ago when I chucked him out, I got rid of him because he kept getting bladdered from Thursday night till Sunday and I didn't want that around our little girl, me and her have ended up in the spare room with the travel cot so many times because he was so pissed
He's been a shit dad since, to the point where I want to change her surname and regret giving her his name, I took here to see Him last sat and he was still pissed from the night before, the last two times before that he started drinking whilst we were there so i walked out, and I've been to him making the effort every time he's never once got the bus to see her, he's not seen her with no alcohol in his system for over 2 weeks, he was supposed to come last night but cancelled on me during the day - long and short of it he's a piece of shit!
My ex also works with my dad, him and another employee went to the pub tonight where my dad has been this afternoon for a funeral, he came home about an hour ago quite drunk and told me that he's left a tab open for my ex and the other lad and I am FUMING
I can't stop sobbing I can't believe how upset I am
My dad thinks my ex is a wanker, he actually sacked him about a month ago but I met my ex with our daughter and he was a mess and in tears so I got him his job back, I can just imagine him now getting triple neat brandies and laughing at my dad
My dad adores my daughter and he's just done a kind thing whilst he's been merry but I feel like I've been kicked in the stomach - he coulee understand why I'm upset
I've got credit card and pay day loan debts which I got for my ex and I'm paying every spare penny I've got into getting rid of them, so my little girl is missing out on that money becuase of him, he does give me money through my dad every week for her but I told him last week I want some extra now to pay these debts off
I was just watching my baby sleep, she's missing out on her dad and my own dad is paying for his piss up, I know he's not thought about it as I have and when I tell him in the morning how upset I am he will be gutted
My mum thinks I'm being stupid
Mabye I am, I don't even need any advice or anything it just helps to write it all down
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MillyStar · 18/10/2012 21:11
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