Hello there - this is my first visit to this.. but feeling in need of a virtual shoulder! I have a 12 month DS, (yes, at my age!!!) which is lovely, but exhausting. I've been married to my DH for three years, and he is gorgeous, but I can't help but think he is concerned that I am not the sexy older woman he married anymore... ie I think he is struggling with that. I used to look young for my age, and be lively etc, but now I probably just seem like a grumpy old woman!
I feel so tired all the time I can't give him the attention that I used to. I guess I'm worried that he will be wondering what on earth he has done (this is my second marriage so I guess I'm a bit insecure..)..
Maybe I should be trying to arrange 'quality time' together? But I'd probably just want to check into a hotel and sleep!!
ps I've already got two teenage children, so I know this period will pass. but he has not had children before, so he probably doesn't. Plus, i am finding it so much more tiring this time round..
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new mum at 47, feeling 67, but married to a 35 year old - all too much
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marriedtothecat · 17/10/2012 12:14
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