I've been with my DP nearly 3 years, first year was great, list if attention hugs, kisses, sex etc y'know the honeymoon period. The past 18mnths we've only had sex about 4 times:( it's driving me insane :( of them 4 times let's just say it's been rather err dull, no foreplay, a quick 10mins of a morning and off to the shower he goes :( I'm left feeling totally unloved and used :(
We're not old, he's 43 I'm 36, I've tried mentioning the lack of affection but it falls on deaf ears :( every other aspect of our relationship is great :) he tells me he loves me, we do things as a couple etc and generally we don't argue.
How can I approach the subject with him when he point blank refuses to even discuss it? I'm getting to the point where I think I want to leave him. I dont want to :( but at the same time I don't want to be in a relationship with no sex :(
I'd appreciate some views or opinions please as I'm at a loss.
Oh and no he's not looking at porn on net, not having an affair or anything like that. He's a good honest hard working man :)
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Why don't we have sex anymore :(
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TnBiscuits · 14/10/2012 22:44
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