DS (age 14) is panicking. He's been pursued via Facebook (damn the site) for a while by a girl who is very, very keen on him. She's persuaded him to change his status to 'in a relationship' and is now bombarding him with messages asking about the way he is looking at other girls, thinking about them, etc, etc.
He says they've only had 'a couple of really awkward hugs', he doesn't fancy her, and she's scaring him, but that he can't turn her down publicly by changing his Facebook back again straight away.
She has a history of self-harm, apparently, and a worryingly possessive streak. Red flags all over the place, in other words.
Does he just ride this out for a few weeks until it's less of an immediate kick in the teeth? Or is that horribly dishonest? He's certainly not a happy bunny.
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Lancelottie · 09/10/2012 18:43
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