OK - this is not a biggie when compared to other threads and experiences in this topic, and I recognise that. But it is driving me mad.
Whenever I tell DH about something he has done or said that I am unhappy with, his response is always 'calm down'. I honestly feel that i am calm when I am talking - and the fact that I know that he is going to say 'calm down' makes me make more of an effort to keep my voice even and talk slowly. And its not like I am constantly raising things, I don't think I am a critical person.
It infuriates me. And I feel that something is happening that I cannot put my finger on. I don't know what to say to him when he says this, and I feel myself losing my cool. And of course then he feels justified in having told me to calm down.
Any advice please?
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HappyAsEyeAm · 04/09/2012 20:21
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