I'm a single mum with 3 dcs. Left my marriage due to ex having a drink problem. Now I'm heavily reliant on my parents for practical, and emotional support. I have a new boyfriend (9months) whom my parents dislike, mainly due to their concerns as to his motivations to be with me. On paper, I earn more, in a stable job, and I'm building my own house. He is a divorcee, and is being made redundant at Xmas, but has good job prospects and a decent pension/payout is expected. They've never taken to him, and my relationship with my parents is suffering. My boyfriend is upset that he's not been accepted, and this in turn is causing problems between us. My folks are usually great at helping out, but if they know it's related to time with my boyfriend, they may refuse, or get huffy. I have tried to separate my relationships with both sides, but it's stressful, and probably not sustainable long term. I'm not sure how to deal with this! Many thanks for your advice!
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