Hi wise ones....
DH and I are both significantly overweight (yuck) and our sex life is sh*te. We rarely even kiss never mind anything else. I know that i am not remotely attracted to him and havent been for years. He says he's attracted to me but I am not so sure.....
He did reject me for a couple of years saying I had let myself go... (recently explained that he really meant that he resented me for geting pregnant and him not being young free and single as a result) Charming
you ever been in this situation (with/without the fat bit) and been able to turn it around? Any words of wisdom you would like to share?
I am miserable in this marriage - nothing seems to flow or feel natural - we are on edge with eachother a lot and pretty much always have been. I really am beginning to wonder if we can get it back
Thank you...
(Background: 3 Dc's, horrendous debt problems which are easing now, Depression and GAD for the last 9 years since DD1 was born - less than 2 years into our 'relationship'.)
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thebiglight · 02/08/2012 20:25
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