I need some tips on dealing with family members (IL's) who are very toxic.
I'm fine on a one-on-one or adult only scenario i.e., I can handle it, be civil, be extremely fleeting/brief with my presence if I must but come into the mix my two dear toddlers and I go f^cking bananas (inside my head, bordering wanting me to vomit).
I get why my children could (or should?) benefit from having 'a relationship' with these family members and letting them come to their own conclusions but how do you handle it when such 'visits' are required?
I'm currently under negotiations with DH about taking my kids to see his parents as there is a big birthday coming up. Thanks
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How to deal with family members you dislike when it comes to contact with your children?
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StarryCole · 16/07/2012 19:51
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