fellatio. I even dislike the word. So, am I really the only person who doesn't find this a pleasure? I am in a fairly new relationship and up until recently it's been fun and all very pleasant, and I knew this was coming I guess, it has been suggested that I might like to give and receive oral. I don't dislike receiving it but that is not fair. I've been single for a while. This guy is a decent character and treats me well. He's a good bit older than me, and I imagined he might be grateful or something. I hoped he wouldn't push his luck if that makes sense. Maybe I don't fancy him enough. Although I'm attracted enough to him to have sex, no complaints. So what now? just wait to be dumped. Wait for it to become something he feels resentful about? Is every other woman out there seriously giving blowjobs on a regular basis? Am I really the only one who'd rather clean the toilet? I know there was a thread a while ago where a woman was wondering whether or not to dump somebody because he was not well endowed. She said he was her soulmate. This man is not my soulmate, but he is a very nice guy and it has been nice to have had somebody to chat to, go out with, to eat, drink, go to the theatre, he's into same sport as I am as well. It will be a shame I think. What to do. What to do. Do any men just accept this?
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