[bit long sorry]
Split with DH in Sept last year, could not make it work due to me having an affair with a school friend.
Background: 5weeks after DS was born I got pregnant again, had dd who was just 2 also and had a horrendous pregnancy and birth. DH and I took the decision to terminate the pregnancy, we were not in a financial or emotional state to have this baby so I went ahead.
I regretted it the second had done it and do to this very day just felt so sad each year, birthdays etc. anyway I told DH I wanted him to have a vasectomy(which he agreed to) so this could never happen again.
Anyway over the years I found myself becoming increasingly broody and DH knew this, we discussed reversal but just couldn't afford it.
We split up anyway and both started seeing other people, anyway I am now pregnant (not planned) father not interested as brief relationship. Ex DH not happy of course but said he still cares and wants to help out if he can.
I'm finding myself wanting him back but not sure if it's for right reasons.
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Hormonalhell · 30/05/2012 08:13
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