I'm feeling a bit stuck and don't have anyone in rl to talk to about this, been lurking for a while and finally decided to post.
Bit of a back story, met dh when I was 17 and he was 29, was quite naive and didn't think anything could go wrong, turns out I wasn't the only one he was with and it scarred me quite bad. Looking back now it wasn't that serious and we both moved on and decided to be together.
Fast forward 7 years and we have been through more along the way that I don't want to go into that much to keep as short as possible. But trust is still a problem for me. I've got to the point where I know that something could happen or come out and I will have to leave with ds who is 4. But the problem is that i'm nearly 25 and feel like my life is being wasted being scared all the time. Just don't know how not to be.
I love dh so much and really believe we are meant to be together but just sometimes feel like i'm still stuck as that 17 year old.
Thanks for listening
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shorty100 · 21/10/2011 15:51
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