name changer here,
i have been married for several years, and am basically, mostly happy. We have never been at it like bunnies and our marriage has been more one of companionship and solidity than passion and excitement.
At the very start of our relationship when we were both very young, my DH couldnt maintain an erection for penetrative sex. Over the years this sorted itself out and we had a few sessions with a therapist.
However, lately, he can start but cant finish iyswim....he seems to lose his erection half way through, and its actually leaving me feeling crap. im sure its not doing much for him either of course, but why now? does this mean he finds me a turn off mid stroke....?(!!) i dont want to make a big deal out of it, im worried that if i do broach it he will feel worse, and the problem will stick
But its putting me right off. He initiates sex, (not often, but he does) then cant finish. He is in his mid 40's.
im not sure what to do.
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icantthinkofawittyname · 19/10/2011 13:26
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