I am in a long term relationship but we have no children. I was happy with my DP and thought he was the one. That is until I met someone else. Now I am torn in two.
I met OM here but he actually lives abroad due to work. It started off as something very physical and I put it down to lust and thought it would fizzle out once he went home. But it has continued in the form of phone calls, text messages etc and the more I speak to him the more I fall for him.
I'm not sure that there is a future in it because I cannot see myself leaving everything I have worked for to move abroad and be with him and I still don't know him very well at all but there is something that draws me to him.
I feel rotten for what I am doing to DP but don't know how to untangle this mess. I never thought I would be this woman. I have had many opportunities over the years but have always turned them down because I wanted to be loyal and really thought I would be with DP for life.
I'm trying to work out if I ever loved him or if I just thought I did. And if I did love him where did it all go wrong and is there any reason we can't be happy again?
I know I won't be very popular on here at all but if anyone has any advice please reply.
TIA
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ellalouxx · 09/10/2011 14:12
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