We've had lots of ups and downs and my husband has mentioned divorce in the past.
I am now getting a bit fed up of his mood swings and threats and I am getting to a point where I want to ask him to move out for maybe a trial seperation to start with.
I can't afford a solicitor but really want to know where I stand with the kids (do they automatically stay with the mother), House (does whoever look after the kids automatically stay there until they reach a certain age), savings etc.
He's said we'd have to sell the house but I've put a lot into it and it's the kids home so I really don't want to sell it. I would try to take it on myself but if I don't have to re-mortgage straight away this obviously helps!
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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Any solicitors out there or anyone with experience of seperation/divorce...need to know where I stand...
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Midgeroo · 05/10/2011 10:12
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