I'm beginning to realise that I am in a (minorly) abusive relationship here but am still struggling with feeling confident that it is him not me causing the problems. His argument, if we spoke about it, would be that I am actually doing things which the-man-on-the-Clapham-omnibus would see as unreasonable. Now I can see (and have always been able to see) that this doesn't give him the right to shout abuse at me but it still leaves the question as to whether I should change my behaviour or not (as obviously there needs to be compromise on both sides). So how do you decide whether you are being reasonable?
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how do you tell which of you is the problem?
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livingonthedge · 29/09/2011 12:10
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