DP had eating disorders as a child and again at Uni. He has always been very thin though. We've been going through one massive rough patch ever since we had DD 5 months ago. I had thought that he just didn't want me anymore etc and that we were heading towards a breakup but have recently begun to suspect that hes using the arguments etc to push me away and hide that he's back to starving himself. I caught him on the scales yesterday and he now weighs the same as me. I am very petite and he is 6ft. He's always been naturally at least 2 stone heavier than me. I can't be sure but he doesn't seem to be eating breakfast or lunch and this week he has begun to leave half of his evening meal. I can't confront him because that always made him worse. He isn't registered at our doctors as we recently moved and he hasn't got around to reregistering yet. I have no idea how to proceed. And to make matters worse until I do the arguments are going to continue and DD is starting to pick up on the atmosphere. He is a student so at home. He also used to have depression and seems to be slipping under again - sleeping 14 hours, never leaving the flat etc. It was an unplanned pregnancy but he had come to terms with it and is really bonding with DD. Money seems to concern him even though we have enough to live comfortably. I'm really struggling to figure out what exactly has triggered this. Thanks for reading so much!
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