I am pm's daughter and I am 15.Mum has had loads of excellent advice and support here and I wondered if it would be ok for me to ask for some? Hope this is ok.My mum knows and agrees btw.
We have just moved from the country to a town near a big city.It is really exciting and there is loads to do.My new school is great and I have already made some lovely friends.
I have always loved singing and mum has posted my youtube links here before.Where we used to live,I sang in the Eisteddfod and was well thought of.
Here,my new friends already see me as a good singer.
We used to go to church ,but stopped when they wouldn't Christen my baby sister because mum isn't married and has five of us.( My sisters' dad was VERY BAD and that is how mum found MN).
I have been going to a youth club with my new friends and yesterday the leader rang me to ask me to sing lead in their gospel choir.They are rehearsing for a very big concert in the city and some famous singers are also singing.They all want me to do a big solo and it would be a great opportunity for me.
Here's the problem.We looked up the church and found they are a different denomination to us.( We are Cof E,they are Elim Baptists)
Mum asked me to check out their values ,so I asked my friend what her church thought about homosexuality.
She said it is against God and is a sin.
I do not agree,and asked her what about my great-uncle,who is gay and married,and my good friend from my old school who has come out recently.She said they would go to hell unless they renounce their sins but would be forgiven if they gave up their life of sin.
This is as shocking as racism to me (I am mixed race,so is my next sister).My friend doesn't understand.I am worried about asking the Church leaders because I would not know how to handle it if they said the same thing.
My mum and sister think I should not get involved with the church now.I agree,but what about the singing - I really want to do it,and it is such a great opportunity.
Mum says to think about it very carefully and she will support my decision,but I know she thinks I will be letting our values down if I sing with them.She said "ask mumsnet". So I have.
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