my husband is estranged from his mum sister and brother they have not spoken for years. Too much as happen it would take a lot of pages to list it all!
It was her choice to stop seeing her granddaughter when she was 3 yrs old, she is now 8 and has had no contact with her or our other child who is 2, she has seen them at school concerts when she as gone to watch my niece who is in the same school. She s the same with her mum as she is with us since my brother inlaw and her mum split up. We see our niece through mummy.
On tuseday my niece s mummy rang to tell me my husbands nana was rushed into hospital the night before, and she thought we should know, she only knew because b/inlaw had rang to cancel that nights visit, she knew we had not been told.
Anyway is nana is in I.T.U, doing well, I went yesterday to see her and was relieved to avoid rest of family, I' m glad I went, my husband is away, my m/ inlaw did see me leave.
When I ring the hospital to see how nana is all they will say is she s comfortable..
I've just rung my husband to suggest maybe he should ring his mum and ask how is nana is but he flatly refused.
I just feel like none of them even rang to say she was poorly and will they tell us if the worst does happen.
I feel stuck no matter what we ever do or say we are always in the wrong.
I Feel so gutted for my hubby, he as always got on well with his nana, we see her as much as we can and she never forgets our girls.
Just don't know what to do
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yummincepie · 23/09/2011 12:53
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