we just do not seem able to "get on". Just dsilly things.
Example - dh has been making kids sandwiches as I have been working evenings. I make the bread in the day (cheaper and easier than buying it as we are rural). Cupboard is full of bits of bread. I kow that some will have been deemed "too staale for sandwiches" and some is oaky butcannot work out which as dh has quite fixed ideas on this. I ask him to sort out the bread and he shouts "you do it". If I do it then I will inevitably somehow get it wrong. So I don't know what to do :(
Any suggestions? Not about the bread can just bin it all :) - I mean that the above (my feeling that I cannot win over silly domestic issues because he has some "way in which it must be done" and gets cross if I do not do it in that way) is pretty typical of our problems and I'm guessing that this is a standard way in which people have problems but am not sure what to google to look for solutions :)
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soggy14 · 20/09/2011 12:34
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