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Seven year relationship has just ended....

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theincredibequeenofwands · 08/09/2011 21:34

..about 45 minutes ago.

Am sad.

Things not been going well for a while, arguement tonight which ended with (ex) partner shouting 'we're breaking up' through my son's bedroom door.

Son is crying.

I've gone numb.

Pretty sure this is it!

:(

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tallwivglasses · 08/09/2011 21:54

So sad for you., been there. Take a deep breath and go and give your son a hug.

Then come back. There'll be lovely mnetters here.

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ike1 · 08/09/2011 22:01

Oh god luv what a hateful thing for him to do. That is a good reason to have him out of your life alone.

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Bluebelle38 · 08/09/2011 22:48

Are you there?

You poor love. Can you get a friend around?

And yes, a very hateful thing to do.

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theincredibequeenofwands · 08/09/2011 23:02

I'm actually okay.

Relieved?

Not sure it's sunk in.

I've thought for a while I'd be happier on my own, I have mates and family and stuff. I'd be okay.

I've been on my own before an obviously coped.

Cheers though, guys.

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ike1 · 08/09/2011 23:05

Hows your son. I think waking a child like that is outrageous

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theincredibequeenofwands · 08/09/2011 23:10

Son is fine.

He was awake when the shouting occurred.

He's been hugged by us both and apologised to.