I recently told my family that I am pregnant, my DH and I are very happy as were my parents. But when we told my sister and her DP at dinner she was a bit odd about it, didn't seem very happy or surprised, just not a normal reaction. You'd expect a congratulations at least, wouldn't you?
Anyway, we went round to visit them a couple of days later and they didn't mention it at all while we were there. Now don't get me wrong, I don't expect everyone to be jumping up and down and going on about it all the time or anything, I just think that it's a bit wierd to not mention it once in two hours. We said a couple of things in passing, to try and see if they would talk about it because we had noticed the odd reaction the other day but they didn't take the bait!
I know the obvious reason would be that they are trying themselves and having trouble, but I really don't think that's it, she's just started her career and has said in the past that she's not ready. Her DP on the other hand does want kids sooner rather than later, I thought that was just in a casual way but maybe he's pressuring her and that's why she won't talk about the subject?
Any ideas gratefully received, don't know whether to ask her outright if she's got a problem or just leave her to it? We get on reasonably well, live in different cities so don't see each other that much but I think we have a good relationship. What should I do?
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nightowlmostly · 06/09/2011 20:52
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