Holidays or time off is an endless source of stress and arguments in our house .We have one son who is 4.
I am so fed up .
Ever since he was born i feel sort of invisible in our family .
I ignored it for the first year or two and told myself to stop being selfish .
My partner is not from the UK .
He inists on going to stay with his parents at least twice a year for a week at a time . ( we spent christmas there , were there for a week in may and his mum came here for a week in july ) His father dislikes flying so generally if we want to see them we have to go there.
Our relationship is in serious trouble .
I simply Cannot spend another week at his parents home .
So Ive refused to go. he plans to go anyway with our son .
He is constantly playing tit for tat on this issue ...in other words if we do actually go away together he feels entitled to assume that its ok to assume that as we are going away on a "family " holiday our next trip is to Germany where he is from .
Is this the end .
When i think about it now I really have had enough ..I mean i want OUT.
Anyone been through similar ???
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germanyagain · 06/09/2011 17:47
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