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Fallout from break up

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Squiglettsmummy2bx · 30/08/2011 22:01

Following on from getting rid of ex last week I have had his mother call me a dirty low life fat slut on her facebook status. We are not fb friends but have mutual friends who saw & told me & her page is public so I have seen it for myself. I have not contacted her as I am sure it is my attention she wants & I don't have the energy but am upset. Probably more because I am pregnant & over sensitive. I also have ex being mr braveface while whinging to me about where he should stay etc so essentially guilt tripping me. Again I am not budging but again my emotions are all over the place.
Not really even after advice just needed a bit of a vent I think x

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michglas · 30/08/2011 22:03

Poor you, it's horrible when others throw in a punch when it's nothing to do with them really. Hold your head high and don't budge an inch. I would also ask others not to let you know what is being said about you by ex mil in the future, to avoid unnecessary further upset x

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Onemorning · 30/08/2011 22:04

What a cow, poor you. ((Squiglettsmummy2bx))

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MJHASLEFTTHEBUILDING · 30/08/2011 22:05

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DraculasMum · 30/08/2011 22:06

god thats awful. I can totally relate to toxic in-laws i have a set of my own.

Your ex-MIL sounds like she is looking for a reaction from you, i know this is hard but in this case you need to be the adult (which she obviously isnt)

I have reacted to a comment made about me by my MIL - guess who the one out of order is, me of course.

Seethe and scream about her in private, dont react in the end it wont be worth it

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Squiglettsmummy2bx · 30/08/2011 22:17

Thank you everyone. You wouldn't think this was a 50 year old woman but she has never liked me as I kept away from exes family as they are into drugs & other stuff that is very far away from my lifestyle & how I was raised. This caused me to be seen as thinking I was better than everyone else. I am just zoning it all out as much as I can hence me having a whinge on here & keeping zipped in real life x

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babyhammock · 30/08/2011 22:22

She sounds absolutely vile and it sounds like you are best out of it all x

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PhilipJFry · 31/08/2011 13:06

What a stupid woman.

Fat: um, no- pregnant.

Slut: Hmm, you were in a committed relationship with her son. How shocking.

Low-life: Well it's her family that are all up into drugs and dodgy stuff. So you must be pretty terrible to beat them! (do you recycle improperly or something awful like that?)

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