Found out H had been having a 9 month affair about 5 months ago. We are working through it and recently have been making lots of good progress. But today it's all gone sour. Our 8th wedding anniversary is next week and my H was angry with me because I said that I didn't want to mark it in anyway. I just want the day to pass. I then got upset and angry and told him why would I want to mark the day that he said his wedding vows that meant absolutely nothing to him and mark the day when last year I spent ages putting a video montage of our time together only for him to be betraying me.
So did you mark your wedding anniversary after an affair? Perhaps I will feel differently next year but I'm quite happy to pick a random day and mark that as a day that we celebrate our new road together.
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Did you mark your anniversary after an affair?
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toomanyeasterbunnies · 30/08/2011 21:32
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