My (first and only) boyfriend and I have a problem I'd love some advice about. It seems he has delayed ejaculation and over the past 3 weeks of us having sex, has only come a handful of times (and we have had LOTS of sex). Each time is by his own hand.
I'm aware this isn't abnormal but as he is my first its hard not to take it a little personally that I can't make him come. Plus it means our sessions last 2+ hours which is fun but sometimes I just don't have that much time.
I've tried asking what he would like me to do, giving him head, using my hand, trying different positions, talking, not talking etc. He isn't taking medication and his isn't overweight (but perhaps a bit unfit) and he is 25. I've asked if there is psychological reasons and he said no. He knows I'm on the pill. I've also tried to reassure him it isn't a problem for me. He also said this hasn't happened before.
So does anyone have any advice or experience they could share? Will it get better?
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sabi333 · 28/08/2011 05:00
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