Found out two weeks ago he had a (short but intense) affair with another woman... was devastated but .. well short story is...he insists it's over/they are not in contact, etc etc.. I have this overwhelming urge to confront her even tho I know he's responsible.. he's the one married to me..have never met her... and I don't know if it would bring me any relief from the utter hurt and betrayal I m feeling. Anyone ever done this? Did it help to move things forward? I have no idea if it would get in the way... at this point, I do want to salvage the relationship.. he's a good dad.. has his faults.. but then I do too.. our relationship was crappy at times.. it doesn't forgive his behaviour but explains it a little.. Has it ever helped anyone? or is it just dragging out things and will make salvaging what's left..and rebuilding just more difficult?
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Has anyone ever contacted the OW after finding out about dp's affair?
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marrythenite · 26/08/2011 19:28
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