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Am i in the wrong?

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rainbowdrift · 26/08/2011 17:35

Hi me and my partner split a month ago. we both wasnt happy as a couple and had decided to just be friends. We still live together as i waiting to get a council property.
He has started to see this woman who is his best friend, they always had a connection and they now acting on it. Im fine with it i no longer love him in that way. But i hold a grudge against her as she always said she would never date him etc when i was with him. she told me she not interested in him that way how he is no good etc.
yet they now a couple, and she so smug and a total arse making out she won him from me when it was a mutual split. She just pissing me off now.
The thing is i can wipe that smug smile of her face as me and him are still sleeping together. Its just a sex thing for us, and heck we happy. Am i wrong in feeling a nasty sense of satisfaction that she so deluded?
Im expecting alot of bad replies but hey i just being honest

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BooBooGlass · 26/08/2011 17:37

Biscuit
Nice try with the council house reference though

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MissVerinder · 26/08/2011 17:39

Rainbow, are you doing yourself any favours by still sleeping with him?

Is this one of those situations where he's having his cake and eating it too?

I know you say it's just a sex thing, but if it truly was, you wouldn't be as narked by new GF as you are (I think).

Maybe your sense of satisfaction is not coming from the fact that she's deluded, but that she's (unknowingly) in the same position as you, and this makes you feel a bit better.

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BooBooGlass · 26/08/2011 17:39

And enjoy the STDs won't you

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MissVerinder · 26/08/2011 17:39

I don't have any biscuits left today!

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TheOriginalFAB · 26/08/2011 17:47

Yes, you are in the wrong.

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rainbowinthesky · 26/08/2011 17:48

You sound lovely. (not)

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DontGoCurly · 26/08/2011 21:04

ha ha ha right

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NotSuchASmugMarriedNow · 26/08/2011 21:13

shouldn't you be sleeping with your brother in law?

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