Well I have posted on here a while back regards this but think I should really call it a day... any advise would be brillinat.
I love my partner dearly and he is a single dad and me a single mum whom we share a daughter of three years old.
His wife died when is son was one so he has been the primary carer. We have been together on and off for four years but it not all bee roses.
I love hi to bits and would do anything for him but think I am a fool and I should get a grip he is just using me... please read and see what you think.
We decided at Christmas we would make a proper go of things, go out together during the day and help one another out. Which we have but we never spend nights at each others houses, barley sleep togther meaning (sex).
I know I put alot of this down to his illness (rhumatoid athritus) as he is always tired, very sick and generally unwell and often sleeps most of the day.
I said last week unless he makes more of commitment ie we settle down get engaged, live together etc I am walking away and he has not tried to get me back but today I have been to see him and he gave me a hug and told me he loved me.
I know he has no energy but that surely should not stop him wanting me should it.
Why do you think he is like this. His family dont like me as he sold his house and we extended mine 2 years ago thinking we would live together but then said he was not ready so rented and now rents a council house. I do loads for him like cook and clean but he does loads for me like diy, looks fter our daughter 2 night s aweek etc and will share what ever money he has but he gave up working full time as some days he cannot even move.
Really i wnat an outsider to see this picture and see what they think. I think i should just leave him dont you?
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IS enough enough do you think should I just leave...
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kiddywinks123 · 14/08/2011 17:47
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