I am a regular user gone anon because this is a bit sensitive.
Nearly 19 years ago I slept with my 1st cousin on more than one occasion.[Not proud of it]He was married at the time.I was not but was seeing someone on and off.
Anyway,I found out I was pregnant and convinced myself that it was my on/off boyfriend who was just an off boyfriend when I told him i was pregnant.
Anyway,had my gorgeous daughter,met a wonderful man a few years later who I married and am still married to.My daughter has always seen him as her dad and he adopted her.have seen my cousin occasionally over the years but he lives a distance from me so never an issue.
Met him this week at a family occasion with his wife.His wife showed me a photo of their daughter who is 2.5 years older than my daughter.She is very like my own daughter.Very like her.
I wonder should I tell him that there is a high chance she could be his?I have nothing to gain from it as it is not something that could ever come out but I feel the need to tell him.Why?
Please could someone tell me to forget it,forget him and just carry on with my life as I know it.
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needadvice2011 · 04/08/2011 01:47
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