My DH is always unhappy, has lost his libido totally (& at times blames me for it) & sometimes says he wants to leave me & our 5 DCs. He can't put his finger on exactly why apart from being unhappy with the "domestic situation" & wanting his own home. He says I'm too negative & miserable but the regular threats plus lack of affection have left me really down. I used to cry & plead when he threatened to leave but for the last year each time he says it have said "I'm not going to give you permission to leave but you're not a prisoner & are therefore free to make your own decision. No one will die as a result & I will survive". The next day he always backtracks & says leaving the children is "not an option for him". I think he wants me to do the deed, ie tell him to leave so he doesn't have to face the guilt & shame of leaving his family. Why should I do his dirty work & make myself a single parent against my will?
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anothermum92 ·
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