I'm not in a good place at the moment. My problems are small compared to those of other people but I am beginning to spiral into despair.
I'm a manager in the public sector. One of my team members has apparently complained about my behaviour towards her when all I was doing was making a polite and reasonable request, and asking her to stop spending hours texting when she should have been working. She then tried to bargain with me to stop doing the bits of her job she is quite capable of doing but finds least enjoyable. When gently challenged she then said I was insulting her religion and being a bully!
I hate this. If anything I am too soft on them all, but everyone needs to know that we all must up our game to meet the new demands on us. I have the support of my colleagues fortunately but feel betrayed as we get on well personally ( and she has said this too) . She also says she is stressed and depressed. But I've been watching her carefully, having been in that boat myself, and she betrays no outward signs of this at all.
I spent most of yesterday in bed, and today am not functioning very well. Am off to see a friend for coffee ( was tempted to cancel).
Any advice or support?
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4c4good · 31/07/2011 17:16
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