Hi I'm a newbie and male so forgive me for posting in a female dominated forum, but I've lurked for a bit and it seems the best place to get some sensible and good advice.
I've been online dating on and off for about a year and I'm at the point where I just feel like knocking it all on the head. Don't get me wrong, I've been on lots of dates and have had a few flings through it, but I find the whole thing deeply unsatisfying and strangely addictive. I seem to find myself logging on just to see if I have had any winks or messages, and once on I just waste time browsing. Then when offline I find i'm always thinking about checking whether I have messages etc. Ultimately it's sad and it's boring. I also think the whole concept of it has mde me picky and impatient. I've met women who I probably would have been happy to date but I always think there may be a better prospect round the corner. In fact, I have 3 first time dates lined up this week alone !
Do you think it sounds like it's time I had a dating hiatus and knocked it on the head? I had my heart broken a year ago and this led me to try online dating. I think I only took it up as some sort of emotional band aid and distraction.
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mrbloke · 25/07/2011 13:27
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