My sister fell out with me in Jan as I wouldnt watch her youngest child while she and her dh went away for the weekend.Long history of her asking for lots of favours but being very shy of giving anything back
.Part of the problem is that she thinks she is very giving, which she may be, just not to my family.
I spent a huge amount of time with her 2 oldest when they where younger babysitting however she has never so much as had either of my dc 5 and 2 for an afternoon.
Should point out that we both have dh and both work the same hours with no other commitments.
Now my dilema is that having had no contact since dn birthday in April my dd is starting to ask why her aunt and cousins who she adores are not visiting anymore. I feel really sorry for her as she have no other cousins.
I feel really angry at my sister for not giving back the same attention I gave her children but I know that she doesnt feel that she has done anything wrong, she has a very high opinion of herself.
So I am stuck with the usual part of having to give in so that my dd has a relationship with her cousins or keep true to myself and let the relationship flounder.
My poor parents are acting as go betweens and are getting upset.
I am just looking for other views on the merit of giving in again in order that my dd doesnt lose out.
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giggly · 24/07/2011 01:27
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