I feel so awful, I know she is devastated. BIL had an affair and they have been trying to work it through but he doesnt really seem happy and even though she is willing to forgive him, he seems to want to leave. She doesnt want him to and is just about holding it together.
Please tell me what to say to her. I really want to make her feel better but I feel so helpless, there isnt a lot I can say or do. She is my little sister and I feel protective. I know some of you have sadly been though this awful painful thing - can you tell me what helped and what didnt, what little things I can do thats good and what to avoid saying/doing.
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BIL is leaving sister - how can I help her???
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janmoomoo · 15/07/2011 12:45
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