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LongGoneBeforeDaylight · 09/07/2011 15:01

Still kiss (properly) when it is not a pre-cursor to sex?

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allbie · 09/07/2011 15:07

Yes. About half hour ago...in the kitchen whilst the kids were elsewhere. He has very kissable lips.

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UsingMainlySpells · 09/07/2011 15:08

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Meow75 · 09/07/2011 15:10

yep

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LongGoneBeforeDaylight · 09/07/2011 15:12

You see me and my DP don't very often. We're affectionate in other ways - spoon on sofa to watch tv quite often, hold hands when walking etc - and have regular sex and we kiss - just pecks - all the time. But we don't (for want of a better word) snog. Is there nobody else like this?

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Mabelface · 09/07/2011 15:14

You're not on your own. We don't either.

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JambalayaCodfishPie · 09/07/2011 17:13

Yup, a lot. :)

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MsEwe · 09/07/2011 17:16

Yes lots, every day and we hug.

We even flirt with each other with out it leading to sex, its just to make the other person feel good and loved.

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ThisMomentusDay · 09/07/2011 22:57

Never! Well hardly ever, he's just not a kisser!! Never was, very affectionate otherwise though so i don't mind!! (much!) :))

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iklboo · 09/07/2011 23:04

Yes. Several times a day!

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MonkeysInShoes · 10/07/2011 10:35

Nope. Snogging before sex only.

Lots of little kisses, hugs, cuddling etc but no snogging.

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WhereTheWildThingsWere · 10/07/2011 10:43

Yes, often.

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DramaInPyjamas · 10/07/2011 10:48

Yes.
Not as much as we used to, but still quite often.

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ledkr · 10/07/2011 11:12

We dont much but funnily enough he snogged me this morning before he left and i cant wait for him to get back now,we are going thru the new baby sex drought but its defo got me interested Grin

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madmomma · 10/07/2011 14:04

my dp and I only snog before sex but are v affectionate and loving & are very happy together. My ex husband and I however, snogged lots and had a very unhappy marriage. go figure. Relationships are just different. If you're happy and you love each other, that's all that matters.

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Squitten · 10/07/2011 16:14

No, we don't. Little pecks, hugs, etc, but not snogging. DH would love to I think but I've never been that into kissing. I think it's because I'm pretty sure I never saw my parents or any other adults in my family kiss. Ever.

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Hufflepuzzpig · 10/07/2011 16:33

Yes, but not as much as we used to. Because usually the DCs are around. Lots of smooching rather than snogging IYSWIM. :)

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eslteacher · 10/07/2011 16:51

It does tend to be before sex for us. Otherwise we are physically affectionate (ie little non-snog kisses, hugs etc) but we don't snog a whole lot unless its leading up to sex. In fact, I think we tend to use a snog as a signal to the other that we want/are up for sex...

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RoseC · 10/07/2011 16:52

Yes, every day. But we don't have DCs yet - I imagine that will make a difference.

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lou33 · 10/07/2011 16:53

Yep

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M0naLisa · 10/07/2011 19:41

normally we are but today hes hardly said a word to me all day cos hes in a mood :( :( God knows what about aswell. woke up in a mood, face like thunder. :(

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birdofthenorth · 10/07/2011 19:46

Kiss many times a day, snog occasionally but it is often a precursor to sex. Miss those hour long snog sessions now I think about it!

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AgainWhen · 10/07/2011 21:01

nope

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AnyFucker · 10/07/2011 21:04

no not really

proper full-on snogs happen as a precursor to, or during, sex

we have been together for 25+ years though Smile

a peck only.....unless shagging is on the cards

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sophielouise21 · 10/07/2011 21:55

he only kisses me when he wants sex.. during sex we dont kiss..

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pointythings · 10/07/2011 22:02

Yep - tricky with DDs, but ambush in the kitchen works.

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